Heart-Centred Ceremonies

Nell Brooker

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Bespoke Celtic Handfastings, Funerals - traditional and alternative, Green Burials & Ashes Burial/Scattering, Tribute Writing including autobiographical

Hi, I'm Nell

I offer heart-centred ceremonies for life’s transitions. My passion is leading ceremonies which support people to mark their most important milestones.

I hold space to support people through bereavements and conduct bespoke funerals (traditional and holistic for people & pets), unions (Celtic Handfasting & renewal of vows), identity rites (naming & gender affirmation), uncoupling & tie cutting, fire & water ceremonies, land & house blessings.

I’m privileged to be able to listen to peoples’ life stories and create ceremonies to honour them. I enjoy delivering outdoor celebrations and supporting people to find environmentally friendly and affordable options.

IPHM certificate in Sacred Celebrancy awarded by the Sacred Celebrant’s Academy, Glastonbury.
NOCN Level 3 in Funeral Celebrancy awarded by Civil Ceremonies.

Please contact me for a chat – I always respond to enquiries so please check your junk mail for my reply.

What's my ceremony style?

An experienced ceremonialist, I offer a range of ceremonies and styles to meet my client’s preferences. I create bespoke ceremonies ranging from formal and traditional funerals to the Passing Over Ceremony – a unique process enabling people to express their thoughts and feelings about their loved one.

As an Elemental Celebrant, I am one of the fortunate few graduates ordained on the Isle of Avalon. I conduct authentic Celtic Handfastings with the hoop and wand and sacred rites connected to the elements.

My super organisation means that I take care of the details to ensure proceedings are smooth running. A lesser known aspect of my service is that I work energetically behind the scenes giving my clients maximum support through emotional experiences.

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Why choose Nell?

I hold dual roles as a Civil Funeral Celebrant and Elemental Celebrant, conducting funeral services and rites of passage. My passion is leading ceremonies which support people from all backgrounds through life’s transitions. I’m interested in what’s important to you and tailor my delivery accordingly. Everything I create is personalised, driven by the wishes, beliefs and values of the person or people at the heart of the ceremony.

I serve Derbyshire and Nottinghamshire and travel further afield when asked – officiating ceremonies at barrows and landmarks in our beautiful British countryside. I’m privileged to witness peoples’ life stories and to honour them by creating personalised ceremonies from the heart.

What do I offer?

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I enjoy officiating all forms of wedding ceremony and a favourite is the Celtic Handfasting. These ancient ceremonies are becoming more popular as people seek fun, meaningful and more personalised rites and the Handfasting is a beautiful way of celebrating outdoors. I’m one of the fortunate few to have trained with the Sacred Celebrants Academy on the Isle of Avalon.
I practise the advanced ‘Hoop and Wand’ ritual but simple cords or ribbons binding the hands are an option. I conduct unscripted, being fully present in the moment, and support the couple and their contributors to prepare their vows and readings in advance. There are a number of additional rituals which offer a quieter alternative to Hen and Stag dos.
As with all my services, I also offer fully scripted weddings, renewal of vows and other ceremonies written around the couple’s story which can include significant poems, lyrics and other readings which are personal to them.

Some options for preparatory rituals and additions to compliment your Big Day:

Hoop & Wand: taking the ceremony further than simply binding the hands – the couple spend time finding and dressing their hoop and wand during the time preceding their ceremony. For same-sex couples, two hoops, two wands, or an infinity symbol or heart are alternative options. Willow is sustainably grown and harvested.

Also offered:
Hoop Dressing Ritual
Incense Blending Ceremony
Jumping the Broom
Cake and Mead Revelling
Land and Threshold Blessing

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Why choose Nell for your wedding?

I have officiated weddings as a Ceremonies Officer (Deputy Superintendent Registrar) for the Registration Service. With a background in comedy acting I can help my clients feel at ease and improvise in those unexpected moments.

Do contact me for a chat and please check your junk mail in case my reply goes there!

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Naming Ceremony

Naming Ceremonies

As an Elemental Celebrant I hold space for life’s transitions. I work with my clients to create bespoke ceremonies which can have a theme or spiritual element. My background as a Deputy Superintendent Registrar means that I can conduct baby and child naming ceremonies with a civil ceremony style format (non-legal) if preferred.

Our name holds power and is an outer expression of ourselves. Ceremony can have a profound effect on our self-esteem as we claim, or reclaim, our true self. Identity ceremonies can be for any of these reasons, and more:

Baby Naming – blessing the new life and a formal welcome into the family and community

Child Naming – creating a sense of belonging for adoption and other reasons

Adult Naming – marking transitions such as name change by deed poll, spiritual identity, reclaiming an ancestral name and birth right or recovery from abuse

Gender Affirming & Naming – celebrating and being honoured in your true identity and hearing your name spoken aloud

Celebration of Self – our relationships start with self-Love and there is power in committing to oneself

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Why choose Nell for your naming ceremony?

Your ceremony is as unique as you are. You can write vows or a dedication to yourself which can be a standalone Celebration of Self or part of your naming ceremony. I will support you in a one-to-one or group process designed for your individual needs and intentions.

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Renewal of Vows

Couples choose to renew their vows for various reasons which are personal to them. A renewal of vows ceremony can be a private or public celebration for a couple to reaffirm their commitment to one another.

I work with my clients creating bespoke ceremonies to suit their unique personalities and relationship. As an Elemental Celebrant I was initiated to conduct the authentic Celtic Handfasting. This has a more bohemian or nature-based feel and can be adapted for vow renewal or you may prefer something more formal and traditional.

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Why choose Nell for your renewal of vows?

I create beautiful ceremonies based in nature. Couples can be re-inspired in their connection to each other and the natural world. Having worked for the Registration Service I also offer simple ceremonies which can be as formal or informal as you prefer.

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As an Independent Funeral Celebrant I work with my clients to create a personalised ceremony, driven by the wishes, beliefs and values of the deceased person and their family.

Every funeral service is original and uses your words to meet your specific wishes. This may include religious content or not. Poetry, readings and music can reflect the person who is being remembered and symbolic actions can involve family and friends, or you may prefer a simple ceremony. The funeral will capture the essence of the person and tell the story of the unique life that has been lived.

I work with Funeral Directors and can also be contacted directly, offering:
Child & baby funerals (no fee)
Green burials
Burial and scattering of ashes
Memorial services / Life Celebrations
Passing Over Ceremonies (group & 1-2-1)
Pet commemorations
Tribute writing

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Why choose Nell for your funeral?

I’m passionate about my vocation as a funeral celebrant. I get to know my clients and meet their individual needs; some appreciate emotional support while others prefer their celebrant to have a low profile. I have adopted the Funeral Celebrant Accord, which defines the attributes and skills required of an excellent funeral celebrant. In my role I’m privileged to meet people from a broad range of backgrounds and offer an equally broad range of ceremonies from traditional civil funerals to the more alternative and contemporary. This could be anything from a rock singalong to weaving in a theme meaningful to the individual or a service comprising mostly music.
Please contact me for an informal chat and refer to my facebook page for the many kind client reviews. facebook.com/NellBrookerFuneralCelebrant

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Reviews for Heart-Centred Ceremonies

Total Reviews: 6

Average Rating: 5

reviews (6)


Remembering our Dad

5 Stars

Funeral | 05/11/2022 | Trent Valley Crematorium

Dear Nell,
Thank you so much for your sensitive handling of our father’s funeral service and making it something he would have been more than comfortable with and which allowed us to remember him in our own ways. I’m not quite sure how we would have managed without you. Thank you again.


An Amazing Day

5 Stars
Mr & Mrs Bean

Wedding | 03/19/2022 | Rugby

We had an absolutely amazing day, made exceptionally special by you conducting our handfasting ceremony and your assistant for all her help – you were both brilliant. xxx


One in a million

5 Stars

Funeral | 02/12/2021 | Bramcote Crematorium

Hi Nell, I would like to thank you so much for all your great work and for making my dad’s send off so lovely. You are one in a million. x

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