I was introduced to Berni as I was looking for a celebrant for the funeral of a close family member. Berni was fantastic – pulling together an order of service, interviewing family members to get their memories, and being someone who could give a very humanist, practical reflection on the day and a life well lived.

The speech she wrote after having interviewed a handful of family members showed a real understanding when it come to piecing together the life history of someone who she, of course, had never met. Even picking out poems that had particular relevance.

A warm, understanding and incredibly capable person whose efforts went a huge way to reducing the impending sense of stress around the day, and we were very grateful for her dropping into the reception afterwards. Would happily use again and encourage others to do so.

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Bernice Benton

Bernice Benton (Berni), The Alternative Celebrant, is based in Llanwrtyd Wells, Powys, Mid Wales … "We all reach junctions along our life’s winding road, that need marking with a celebration; a time of reflection; or some form of commemoration. As an “Alternative Celebrant”, I aim to help you punctuate your life story by guiding you to create an event that is as unique as you are. I believe we are all ordinarily extraordinary. I specialise in Intimate Alternative Celebrations of Love and Unity, and Memorials that help express yours and your loved ones’ own personalities. I would love to help you celebrate, commemorate, or find solace with or for a person, pet or occasion in your life. Alongside those ‘traditional’ chapter changes in our lives: Marriages, Births, Deaths; there are so many more occasions that cause for a breather, a moment of reflection and a bit of time to celebrate. At every crossroads in our journey we should take time to reflect, celebrate or commemorate. I can help facilitate this; whatever the occasion. There Are No Rules."Alongside being a Celebrant, Berni is also a Guesthouse owner, Stained Glass Artist, Gardener and Lady Lily The Pink of The Official Monster Raving Loony Party.