Can I include Godparents in the Naming Ceremony?

Absolutely! A naming ceremony offers a wonderful opportunity to appoint godparents, guideparents, or supporting adults (sometimes affectionately called Oddparents!) who hold a special place in your child’s life. These chosen individuals can play an active and meaningful role during the ceremony, making it a truly personalised and memorable event. From readings to rituals, our celebrants share beautiful ideas and unique ways to include godparents / guideparents in a non-religious naming ceremony.

Unlike a Christening or Baptism, there are no restrictions or prerequisites for the guideparents in a non-religious/secular or multi-faith naming ceremony. This means you can select anyone who holds a meaningful place in your family’s life, and they can be involved as much or as little as you wish.

What is the Role of Godparents in a Naming Ceremony?

Godparents or guideparents are not just honorary titles; they represent a commitment to support and nurture your child throughout their life. While their role is flexible, here are some common ways they can contribute to a naming ceremony:

• Making Vows and Promises: Guideparents can prepare heartfelt promises, either by answering questions posed by the celebrant or writing their own vows. This personal touch adds a deep layer of significance to the ceremony.
• Being Positive Role Models: They take on a role of mentorship, providing guidance, love, and support as the child grows.

Ideas for Including Godparents in the Naming Ceremony

A celebrant-led naming ceremony is a blank canvas, offering endless ways to include and celebrate godparents. Here are some inspiring ideas:

1. Vows and Promises

Guideparents can publicly affirm their commitment to the child by making vows or promises. These could be light-hearted, deeply personal, or a mix of both, reflecting the unique relationship they share with your family.

2. Unity Candle Ceremony

The guideparents can take part in lighting a unity candle, symbolising their connection to the child and the family. This visual representation of unity creates a beautiful moment during the ceremony.

3. Sand Ceremony

In a sand ceremony, each godparent pours a layer of coloured sand into a single vessel, creating a striking symbol of togetherness and support for the child.

4. Fingerprint Family Tree

Guideparents can leave their fingerprint on a symbolic family tree artwork. This tree can be kept as a keepsake, representing the loving network surrounding your child.

5. Forming a Circle of Support

Guideparents and other significant figures can form a physical circle around the child and family, signifying their commitment to nurturing and supporting the child’s growth.

6. Readings and Poems

Invite the guideparents to share a special reading, poem, or even a song. This contribution adds a personal and emotional touch to the ceremony.

Can I Use the Term Godparent if I’m Not Religious?

Yes, absolutely! You can use whatever title feels most comfortable and meaningful to you. While the term “Godparent” is widely recognisable, many families choose alternative names that better reflect their personal beliefs and values. Some popular alternatives include:

• Guideparent
• Mentor
• Guardian
• Friend-parent
• Honorary Auntie or Uncle
• Sparent
• Odd-parent
• God-less-parent
• Fairly Un-godly Mother

The flexibility of naming ceremonies means you can choose a title that perfectly matches your family’s ethos.

Want more ideas? Read What do we call the godparents at a naming ceremony?

Finding the Perfect Celebrant for Your Naming Ceremony

A professional naming celebrant can help you craft a meaningful and memorable naming ceremony tailored to your family’s needs. Celebrants bring creativity and expertise, suggesting fun and heartfelt ways to include your chosen guideparents. From writing personalised scripts to planning unique rituals, a celebrant ensures every aspect of your ceremony reflects your vision.

Explore our directory to find the perfect naming celebrant who can guide you through this special journey. With their help, you can celebrate your child’s arrival surrounded by love, laughter, and the special people who will play a vital role in their life.

Start planning your unforgettable naming ceremony today!